I believe that your husband can come to you in your > dreams. I also believe that God allows them to look > down upon us. He does not miss you, though because > there is no sadness in heaven but he still loves > you. The Bible says we love all, but our vows are "until death do us part". All love each other, but we don't understand what awaits us until we are gone. I believe they see us(but that is just me), but we are no longer spouses in Heaven.